Adding flexibility to your estate plan benefits most families, often to the tune of hundreds of thousands of dollars.
For the purposes of this article, I will assume what I call "The Leave it to Beaver Family," though the concept can apply to many more families: two married grandparents with two children only from that union, and each of those children have two children of their own. No divorces, and no “love child” from the sixties.
Based on over 40 years of experience as an estate attorney and CPA, the overwhelming financial goal of these families is first to provide for both grandparents, then the survivor, then their children equally, and only then, their grandchildren. I refer to these estate plans as "I Love You" wills. For most traditional families, they are an excellent starting point.
The problem is that for most families, the starting point is also the ending point. This standard approach is simple and intuitive, and it is usually what grandparents have in mind before meeting with an estate attorney. In many cases, however, it costs families hundreds of thousands of dollars in avoidable taxes.
The Case for “Building In” Flexibility
Back in the early '90s, I read an article that that seemed like a revelation from the Gods. Using disclaimers, I could draft a much better estate plan for most families. I changed the way I prepared estate plans practically immediately. Before I sold my law firm, we had prepared close to 3,000 estate plans that included disclaimer elements. Over 30 years later, many of those clients have since passed with these flexible documents in place, and after a death, their families have enjoyed life changing benefits in tax savings and the best positioning of family money.
A disclaimer is simply a legal way to refuse part or all of an inheritance. The person disclaiming can't redirect the money; they can only keep it or disclaim it, and if they disclaim, that money passes to the next beneficiary in line. For example, if Grandpa dies leaving an asset to Grandma, she can disclaim and that asset passes to their children. Assuming it is set up right, each child then has the option to disclaim their share into a trust for their children. The key insight is this: you don't have to decide today how to divide your estate among your heirs. You build flexibility into your documents so that after a death, the surviving family members can look at the actual circumstances and make the smartest decision at that time. They have nine months from the date of death to disclaim.
I call this approach Lange's Cascading Beneficiary Plan℠, which has appeared numerous times in The Wall Street Journal and peer-reviewed articles, in thousands of entries in Google pointing to me, and about which I write about extensively in most of my books.
How It Works in Practice
Under the standard "I Love You" plan, when the first grandparent dies, everything including the IRA goes to the surviving grandparent, and at the second death, to the children equally. Under the SECURE Act, those children must withdraw and pay taxes on the entire inherited IRA within ten years. If they are already in a high tax bracket, the tax acceleration is brutal.
Now imagine the same family with disclaimer provisions in place. After the first grandparent dies, the surviving grandparent could keep or disclaim whatever assets he/she chooses depending on his/her needs, the family's needs, and the best tax planning at that time. If the surviving grandparent disclaims, each child can then look at their own situation and decide: Do I need all this money? Or would our family be better off if I disclaim some of it, particularly the IRA money, into a trust for our children?
If a grandchild is in a much lower tax bracket than their parents, the tax savings can be substantial. You can mix and match. A child can keep some assets and disclaim others. They can keep the after-tax investments but disclaim IRA or Roth IRA dollars or disclaim only a portion of their share. The flexibility is enormous, and no one has to make these decisions until nine months after a death.
How Did Things Change with the Passing of the SECURE Act?
Before the SECURE Act took effect for deaths after 2019, disclaiming IRA money to grandchildren or trusts for grandchildren was fantastically profitable. The grandchildren could stretch that inherited IRA over their entire lifetime, creating decades of tax-deferred (or in the case of a Roth, tax-free) growth. Families saved hundreds of thousands of dollars through these disclaimers. Some would say I helped set up hundreds of tax-deferred and tax-free dynasties.
The SECURE Act changed the math by requiring most non-spouse beneficiaries withdraw and pay taxes on inherited IRAs within ten years. That made disclaiming to grandchildren dramatically less advantageous, but it did not eliminate the strategy. There are still significant savings available when there is a meaningful disparity in tax brackets between generations.
And for certain beneficiaries who qualify as Eligible Designated Beneficiaries, including those who are disabled or chronically ill, the lifetime stretch is still available. Last month's article described one powerful application of that exception in my own family's planning that saved our daughter over a million dollars. A future article will describe how some beneficiaries may qualify for this lifetime stretch even if they don't qualify for SSI or SSDI, which could have an enormous impact on hundreds of thousands of grandparents with a grandchild with significant challenges.
What Should You Do?
If you are a former legal client of our firm, there is a good chance you already have disclaimer provisions in your estate documents. If you want a refresher on the plan you likely have and the options your family will have at your death, I encourage you to attend the webinar described in this newsletter.
And if you don’t have disclaimer provisions in your documents, I would strongly encourage you to attend as well. I will be covering these strategies in detail on March 24th, including a dedicated session on the Cascading Beneficiary Plan. I will include a section for grandparents of a grandchild with a disability. Registration details follow.
If you are a grandparent of a grandchild with a disability, I also highly encourage you to visit DisabledChildPlanning.com/Free for some phenomenal free resources.
Disclaimer: Lange Accounting Group, LLC offers guidance on retirement plan distribution strategies, tax reduction, Roth IRA conversions, saving and spending strategies, optimized Social Security strategies, and gifting plans. There is no solicitation being made for legal services by James Lange or Lange Accounting Group, LLC. Although we will bring our knowledge and expertise in estate planning to meetings with clients, all recommendations are offered in our capacity as a financial planning professional and not as an attorney. We will, however, potentially make recommendations that clients could have a licensed estate attorney implement.
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Tuesday, March 24, 2026
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Dear Friend,
This month’s Lange Report is focused on grandparents.
Many grandparents reach a point where the central planning question is no longer “Will I have enough?” but rather "How can I balance enjoying retirement, helping my family while I am alive and leaving a meaningful tax-savvy legacy."
To help grandparents spend more, gift more, and leave more, we are offering a free, three-part webinar series on Tuesday, March 24th designed specifically for them.
There are proven strategies that can help grandparents coordinate their three goals at once: confident spending, meaningful gifting, and a tax-savvy legacy.
In particular, optimal distribution planning and spending the right buckets first, and whether, when, and how much to convert to a Roth IRA is a great start. The area often overlooked is the optimal beneficiary designation of your IRA which if done with the strategy we recommend, could dramatically impact how much your family keeps after taxes.
This series will show grandparents practical ways to put our strategies to work for your family. I hope you will consider joining us for one or more of the sessions.
Warm regards,
Spend More, Leave More, and Let the IRS Foot the Bill
Strategic Planning for Grandparents with $1 Million+ in Retirement Assets
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Tuesday, March 24, 2026
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Session One: 10:00AM - Noon (Eastern)
Safe Withdrawal Rates: How Much Can You Truly Afford to Spend?
Most grandparents that I work with spend way less than they can afford, primarily because they are relying on a depression-era mentality usually inherited from their parents and on outdated rule of thumb.
This session explains the latest safe withdrawal research from Bill Bengen, the originator of the 4% rule, how to apply it to your own planning horizon, and how to integrate portfolio withdrawal strategy into your broader retirement income and spending plan.
In this session you will learn:
- The 4.7% Reality: Why Bill Bengen updated his traditional 4% guideline to 4.7% for a 30-year retirement, effectively giving retirees a 17.5% "raise."
- The Time Horizon Shift: How withdrawal guidance can dramatically change when your planning horizon is shorter, or longer, than 30 years.
- The Gift of Clarity: How a clearer withdrawal plan can support both lifestyle spending and gifting goals.
- All the Pieces of the Puzzle: How portfolio withdrawals fit together with gifting, Roth conversions, Social Security, pensions, and other retirement income sources as interdependent pieces of your larger spending and gifting strategy.
Session Two: 1:00 PM – 3:00 PM (Eastern)
Roth Conversions: Protecting Your Purchasing Power (and Your Legacy)
While Roth conversions can help secure your own lifestyle, the reality is you will likely never spend most of your Roth IRA. So, though it is often still great for you, many grandparents ultimately find that the greatest benefit of Roth planning is having created a massive, tax-free reservoir of funds for your children and/or grandchildren.
In this session, Jim will cover:
- The "SECRET": Why measuring your wealth in "purchasing power," rather than total dollars, is the only reliable way to evaluate if a Roth conversion is right for you.
- The OBBBA Impact: How recent tax-law changes have reshaped the planning landscape and created a limited window for optimal conversions.
- Reducing Lifetime "Tax Drag": How to move money from "forever taxed" accounts to "never taxed" accounts at the lowest possible cost.
- Advanced "Tax-Free" Techniques: How to convert after-tax dollars in IRAs and other retirement plans to Roths at no cost. We also cover a strategy that allows your heirs to make a Roth conversion at their rates after you are gone.
Session Three: 3:30 – 5:30 PM (Eastern)
The Best Estate Plan for Grandparents: The Cascading Beneficiary Strategy
Bonus: Includes a dedicated section on planning for a grandchild with a disability, drawing on strategies published on Forbes.com.
The "common default" estate plan, naming children as equal beneficiaries, can create avoidable income-tax acceleration. This session covers a "cascading" plan designed to add flexibility and improve after-tax outcomes to keep more of your wealth within the family.
You will learn:
- The Power of Disclaimers: How disclaimers build flexibility into your estate plan and why they make so much sense for most families.
- The $1 Million+ Benefit: How disclaiming from a child to a grandchild will save the Lange family over $1.1 million in taxes. To be fair, this is likely far greater because Jim’s daughter has a disability. But, if your children are in a higher tax bracket than your grandchildren, there could still be enormous tax savings.
- The Grandchild "Win-Win": Utilizing trusts to provide for a grandchild’s future (including specialized planning for grandchildren with disabilities) while minimizing the tax bite for the entire family.
- Who Gets What: The high-impact move of directing specific assets to particular family members based on different attributes like tax status (spousal, child, grandchild) and/or their unique tax brackets.
About Your Presenter: James Lange, CPA/Attorney
Jim is the author of 10 best-selling financial books and has been quoted 37 times in The Wall Street Journal. He has published 21 articles for Forbes.com including the one just published, regarding strategies he will cover during the webinar.
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Tuesday, March 24, 2026
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Yours FREE! Valuable Bonus Gifts When You Attend:
1. Hardcover Book: Retire Secure for Professors and TIAA Participants or Retire Secure for Parents of a Child with a Disability.
2. A laminated Safe Withdrawal Card.
3. Jim’s article published on Forbes.com regarding the increased safe withdrawal rate.
4. Jim’s new article published on Forbes.com for grandparents of a grandchild with a disability.
Disclaimer: Lange Accounting Group, LLC offers guidance on retirement plan distribution strategies, tax reduction, Roth IRA conversions, saving and spending strategies, optimized Social Security strategies, and gifting plans. Although we bring our knowledge and expertise in estate planning to our recommendations, all recommendations are offered in our capacity as CPAs. We will, however, potentially make recommendations that clients could have a licensed estate attorney implement.
Asset location, asset allocation, and low-cost enhanced index funds are provided by the investment firms with whom Lange Financial Group, LLC is affiliated. This would be offered in our role as an investment advisor representative and not as an attorney.
Lange Financial Group, LLC, is a registered investment advisory firm registered with the Commonwealth of Pennsylvania Department of Banking, Harrisburg, PA. In addition, the firm is registered as a registered investment advisory firm in the states of AZ, FL, NY, OH, and VA. Lange Financial Group, LLC may not provide investment advisory services to any residents of states in which the firm does not maintain an investment advisory registration. Past performance is no guarantee of future results. All investing involves risk, including the potential for loss of principal. There is no guarantee that any strategy will be successful. Indexes are not available for direct investment. If you qualify for a free consultation with Jim and attend a meeting, there are two services he and his firms have the potential to offer you. Lange Accounting Group, LLC could offer a one-time fee-for-service Financial Masterplan. Under the auspices of Lange Financial Group, LLC, you could potentially enter into an assets-under-management arrangement with one of Lange’s joint venture partners.
Please note that if you engage Lange Accounting Group, LLC and/or Lange Financial Group, LLC for either our Financial Masterplan service or our assets-under-management arrangement, there is no attorney/client relationship in this advisory context.
Although Jim will bring his knowledge and expertise in estate planning to this workshop and to the meetings, it will be conducted in his capacity as a financial planning professional and not as an attorney. This is not a solicitation for legal services.





